Sheila Heti
Book Excerpts

Sheila Heti – When Love Slips into the Death Drive

Sheila Heti's novel 'How Should a Person Be?' asks that candid and naive question with honesty, humor and sincerity. During the course of the book, she especially looks at love and all its difficulties, and in this passage she talks about the kind of obsessive sexual love that pushes us over cliffs and into the death drive, that longs for 'annihilation, comfort and death'.